Capturing Joy: How to Document Your Grandparents

When professional photographer Hailee Corry surprised her 89-year-old grandfather, Ralph, with an impromptu photo shoot, she didn’t expect the internet to fall in love with him—but that’s exactly what happened. The behind-the-scenes video she shared quickly went viral, racking up millions of views and inspiring others to celebrate their own grandparents.

Hailee’s motivation was deeply personal. “It’s been a hard year for my grandpa,” she shared. “We lost my grandma last year, who was his wife of 60 years, and so it was a way to get him out of the house and lift his spirits.” The shoot was not just about capturing beautiful images—it was about preserving Ralph’s memory and honoring the joy he carries.

The Secret to a Successful Grandparent Photo Shoot

Hailee offered a playful yet practical guide for photographing grandparents, especially those who might be camera-shy:

1. Show Up Unannounced

“You have to show up surprised,” Hailee said. “Don’t let ’em know you’re coming. Don’t stress ’em out with premeditated thoughts or requests or scheduling.”

2. Bring Cookies

“Grandpa’s favorite cookie was oatmeal raisin,” she laughed. “Any dessert will do.” Cookies served as both a bribe and a bonding moment.

3. Don’t Take No for an Answer

“Honestly, once they get there and they get going and they get the photos, they’re so grateful to have those.”

4. Embrace the Complaints

“They’re gonna complain a little bit,” Hailee admitted, “but honestly, that’s what made this night so funny. The back and forth, just the banter.”

5. Let Them Choose Their Outfit

Comfort is key. “I did bring a couple pieces that kind of spiced it up a little bit and made him feel special, but also feel like himself.”

6. Use Natural Prompts

Hailee encouraged Ralph to swing his arms, which led to spontaneous singing and dancing. “That movement really creates some natural laughs and smiles.”

7. Pick a Familiar Location

Whether it’s the front porch or the local Main Street, familiar places help create authentic moments. “It’s more about the person than it is the scenery.”

A Message That Resonates
The experience was more than just a photo shoot—it was a celebration of life, love, and legacy. “We need to celebrate our seniors, make them feel seen, and capture who they are now,” Hailee said. She also paid tribute to her late grandmother, Nadine Joy, saying, “She always taught us to choose joy.”
Her final takeaway? “Always choose joy and take the picture. You’ll be so glad you did when it’s all you have left.”

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