Speech issues might seem cute in kids, but they can cause them to lose self-esteem.
Speech errors affect many families. Maybe it’s a subtle lisp, or a more noticeable speech issue—but beyond the technical aspects, these errors can seriously impact a child’s self-confidence.
Speech Therapist Ashley Christensen shared a few strategies to support your child in overcoming speech embarrassment, and boosting their self-esteem.
1. Open Up the Conversation
Ashley emphasized the importance of talking openly about speech issues. When your child shares their feelings about their speech, thank them for being honest. It’s crucial to show them that their feelings are valid and that you’re there to support them.
2. Focus on the Message, Not the Method
Remind your child that what they are saying is more important than how they are saying it. Let them know that you are always interested in their ideas, even if it’s sometimes hard to understand them. This reassurance can help them feel valued and less embarrassed about their speech difficulties.
3. Encourage and Empower
Tell your child that they can learn to make the correct sounds. Even if it feels challenging, reassure them that it will get easier with practice. Just as walking becomes second nature, so will speaking clearly. This helps shift their focus from frustration to the progress they’re making.
4. Use Positive Affirmations
Ashley suggested using “magic words” or positive affirmations to build your child’s confidence. Remind them regularly of their strengths with phrases like:
- “I am amazing.”
- “I am a great learner.”
- “What I have to say is important.”
- “I can speak clearly.”
These affirmations help reinforce a positive mindset and encourage your child to believe in their abilities.
5. Provide Clear Steps and Tools
Give your child specific steps and tools to master the sounds they’re struggling with. Use appropriate resources at home and progress at a pace that matches their current level. Avoid rushing ahead, as building skills gradually helps maintain their motivation and ensures continued success.
6. Celebrate Small Wins
Ashley pointed out that recognizing and celebrating small successes is essential. Even if progress seems slow, acknowledge every achievement. For instance, if your child can distinguish between correct and incorrect sounds, that’s a significant milestone. Celebrating these small victories helps maintain their enthusiasm and confidence.
Ashley has an online Speech Sound Academy where she teaches all these tips and more. Find more help from Ashley on her website, mymagicwords.fun, or on Instagram, @my.magicwords.
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