These are the habits of a dependable friend.
There is one kind of friend we all need and hope to be: the dependable friend. This is the friend who always shows up, no matter what. But how do we become that friend?
Alexis and Chanté, motivational speakers and hosts of the online community “Let’s Talk Sis,” share their insights on the small yet powerful habits that make up a dependable friend.
The Importance of Dependability
Alexis and Chanté emphasized the significance of dependability in friendships. Alexis stated, “Sometimes we don’t know what to do or how to show up, but those people that just do it make such a difference.” Dependability is about being reliable and trustworthy, showing up for friends through both happy and difficult times.
A Dependable Friend Shows Up
Chanté believes that a dependable friend just shows up. She explained, “You have to be connected enough in a friendship to just know. Sometimes it’s sending a silly text or dropping by, but helping that person know that you’re there.” A dependable friend is present and reliable, no matter the circumstances.
A Dependable Friend Stays Connected with Regular Check-Ins
Staying connected can be challenging in today’s busy world, but Alexis and Chanté offer practical ideas. Alexis mentioned, “It can be as simple as a text. We love Marco Polo. We send Marco Polos a lot to friends, and sometimes they can’t always listen right at that time, but they can go listen later.” Staying connected means finding ways to check in and show that you care.
A Dependable Friend Stays Involved
Knowing someone’s life well enough to get involved is crucial. Alexis shared a personal story: “I remember one time I was going to get surgery and a friend showed up and cleaned my bathrooms. After surgery, going into a clean bathroom made me feel so emotional and thankful.” Thoughtful gestures, big or small, show that you care and are willing to go the extra mile.
A Dependable Friend Goes the Extra Mile
Going the extra mile through thoughtful gestures is another key habit. Chanté recalled, “My son was sick with pneumonia, and a friend called me the day before Valentine’s Day. She asked about the Valentine’s boxes for my other kids and said, ‘I’m on it.’ It was so intentional and thoughtful.” These gestures make friends feel seen and valued.
“I try to connect with people in a way that shows up for them the way I want people to show up for me,” Alexis shared.
As sisters and friends, Alexis and Chanté have a unique bond. They talk multiple times a day and support each other through everything. Alexis shared, “We’re each other’s emotional support friends. No matter what, we’re there for each other with no judgment.” Their relationship exemplifies the habits of a dependable friend.
For more insights and advice, follow Alexis and Chanté on Instagram at @letstalk_sis. Listen to their podcast, “Let’s Talk Sis,” anywhere you get your podcasts.
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