When you get involved, the school year gets better for you AND your child.
Maybe you have the back-to-school blues, or maybe you’re thrilled for a fresh start. Either way, we’re here to ensure your family starts the semester strong.
Educational Consultant Michelle Love-Day shared three ways to do it.
Start Strong with Their Teacher
One of the most important relationships to foster at the start of the school year is with your child’s teacher. Michelle emphasized, “We have to remember that the teacher is somebody else’s child, spouse, sister, and that they have a human side.” Teachers, like everyone else, have spent their summer dealing with personal issues and emotions. They are probably feeling just as sad or happy about being back as you are. It’s crucial to “put on the human lens” and see them as real people.
Additionally, it’s important to remember that teachers want the same thing for your child that you do: a good education. They are back in the classroom, preparing and sitting through professional development sessions, anxious to educate your child and help them succeed.
As Michelle pointed out, “Assume the best that they want them to shine and probably be better than what you imagine they could be.”
Start Strong with Their School
Starting strong with the school involves active engagement. Michelle advised parents to check their emails regularly, even though it might be annoying with “80 million surveys.” Schools are trying to get a snapshot of your child, so it’s important to stay updated. Many school districts are adopting new communication systems that are easier for parents to use, including translation into different languages. Make sure your contact information is accurate and listen to the voice messages the school sends out.
Michelle also highlighted the importance of showing up for school events. “My child did not want to go to the sophomore kickoff. Nobody’s going to be there. I said, ‘We’re going to hear what the counselors have to say.’” Attending these events can provide valuable information and resources, such as Chromebooks and student IDs.
Being a cheerleader for the school can positively impact your child’s attitude towards their education. Michelle suggested buying a school T-shirt every year to show support.
“Didn’t we just get off of the Olympics? We’re all team USA right now. Do the same thing for your school.” Supporting school fundraisers and participating in PTA activities can also foster a sense of community and involvement.
Start Strong with Your Student
Finally, starting strong with your student involves emotional and moral support. Michelle advised, “We’re going to pray for them. Lots of prayers. Let’s begin there.” She also recommends you help your child identify their values so they’re better able to stand up for what they believe in as they navigate different situations at school.
Michelle also believes that celebrating all forms of learning is also important. “Whether it’s homeschool, virtual school, private charter, or public, we all need to educate our future right now.” As a community, we need to uplift and ensure that our students are growing and ready to take over when it’s time for us to retire.
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