Make this Christmas about what matters most to your family.
December is a month filled with family magic, and at the center of it all is you. We see your efforts to create happy holiday moments and know you have a desire to infuse the season with love.
To help you put your precious time into the places that matter most this Christmas, Studio 5 Parenting Contributor Heather Johnson will help you see from your kid’s perspective. She shared what your children are hoping for, looking for, and observing this time of year.
The Importance of Rituals and Traditions
Heather emphasized that children cherish rituals and traditions. She noted, “Kids are looking for all the rituals and traditions that we can possibly give them. They love that.” These rituals provide stability and security, making them essential during the holiday season. Whether it is putting up a tree the day after Thanksgiving or making gingerbread houses, maintaining these traditions is crucial.
Creating a Festive Atmosphere
Children also desire a festive atmosphere. Heather mentioned that this isn’t just for little kids, but also for teenagers and adult children. They want to see the familiar decorations and festive lights that have been part of their lives. “They want an atmosphere that is full of the festivities,” Heather said.
Quality Time and Surprises
Quality time is another significant aspect. Heather pointed out that children look for meaningful interactions and memory-making activities. Additionally, they love surprises, which adds novelty to the stability provided by traditions. “Kids are desperate for surprises to be included,” she remarked.
Observing Parental Behavior
Children closely observe their parents’ behavior during the holidays. They watch how their parents treat others, manage stress, and handle the preparations for the season. Heather highlighted, “They’re going to be watching if we treat others with kindness and generosity.” This observation extends to how parents manage routines and expectations.
Managing Routines and Expectations
Heather advised parents to be mindful of managing routines, especially bedtime and mealtime routines, despite the holiday excitement. She also stressed the importance of managing expectations, “We want to make sure that we’re helping manage those expectations in us as well as helping manage them with our kids,” she explained.
Prioritizing Values and Quality Time
During the holiday season, it is essential for parents to prioritize their values and focus on quality time. Heather encouraged parents to reflect on their values and ensure their actions aligned with them. “We want to take a step back and decide what values do I subscribe to and make sure our energy goes there,” she said.
Serving Others
Finally, Heather emphasized the importance of serving others during the holiday season. This could involve helping family, neighbors, or anyone in need. “Our kids are watching how we’re treating other people,” she reminded parents.
To contact Heather for counseling, email blog.familyvolley@gmail.com, or visit www.familyvolley.blogspot.com.
Add comment