Matriarchs are an integral part of a family.
On Studio 5, we’ve explored the essence of being a matriarch. Matriarchy may look different for everyone, but one truth remains: You matter. Matriarchs matter. This series, “Becoming Matriarch,” aims to help women find confidence in their roles as female family leaders.
Ruth Todd, mother and grandma, shared her thoughts on the importance of matriarchs. Known for her decade-long tenure as KSL’s lead anchorwoman, Ruth now leads in a different capacity as the Executive Vice President of Bonneville International Corporation.
A Matriarch’s Perspective
Many women feel insecure as they transition into the role of a matriarch. Ruth related to these feelings, emphasizing that being a matriarch is about mothering and influencing those you love. She reflected on the legacy passed down from her grandmother and mother, highlighting the importance of “planting seeds or passing a torch.”
The New York Times coined the term “kinkeeping” to describe the tasks women traditionally perform to bind their families together. Ruth appreciates this recognition, noting that these small, intentional acts matter greatly. “Everything you do and every time you gather or plan does not need to be Pinterest worthy,” she reminded us.
Ruth highlighted the significance of simple, intentional gatherings over extravagant events. She recalled her own experiences with her mother and grandmother, emphasizing that the feelings of love and belonging are what truly matter. “It’s not about me or my legacy,” she said, “it’s about that multigenerational thread that we want to run through our families.”
Ruth reminded us that being a matriarch is about intentionality, love, and creating a sense of belonging. Her message is clear: “Throw yourself out there, gather those people, and in all the messiness and imperfectness, let people know you love them and what’s important to you.”
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