A matriarch is an important role.
As a mother of three and grandmother of thirteen, Michelle Craig believes that matriarchs are the bridges between generations, connecting family traditions, values, and stories.
Michelle, former first counselor in the Young Women General Presidency for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, shared her thoughts on the vital role of matriarchs in families.
The Importance of Family Connection
Michelle emphasized the significance of family connection in today’s busy and often chaotic world. She stated, “Matriarchs are in a position to create moments of family connection. I think that’s so important in a world that is increasingly dark and busy, and there are so many voices coming at our children and grandchildren.”
Intentionality in the Role of a Matriarch
Being a matriarch requires deliberate intention. Michelle explained, “I think we need to be very intentional and mindful in deciding our priorities.” She highlighted the importance of using discretionary time to reinforce family traditions and values, ensuring that these are passed down to future generations.
Supporting the Front Lines
Michelle acknowledged that parents are on the front lines of raising children, but matriarchs can provide essential support. She said, “I want to reinforce those good things that my children are doing in their homes and to provide relief.” This support can come in various forms, such as taking grandchildren for individual dates or offering respite to parents.
Lessons from Female Elephants
Drawing inspiration from nature, Michelle shared a beautiful metaphor involving female elephants. “Female elephants are natural leaders and nurturers in their herds. They instinctively rally around the young and the vulnerable,” she explained. She believes matriarchs have the unique opportunity to do the same – build up and protect the young and the vulnerable.
Leaving a Legacy
When asked about the legacy she hopes to leave, Michelle expressed her desire for her family to feel unconditionally loved. “I just want to love with abandon. I hope they know those values and those beliefs that I hold dear and that make me who I am,” she said.
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