A matriarch guides her family through life.
The role of a matriarch is both special and sacred, deserving recognition for its unique strengths and responsibilities. Whether you are a confident matriarch or still finding your footing, you can become one.
Elaine Dalton, a mother of six and grandmother to 21, shared her experiences and insights on becoming a matriarch. As the former president of the Young Women General Presidency for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Elaine brought a wealth of wisdom and warmth to the discussion.
The Meaning of Matriarch
When first confronted with the term “matriarch,” Elaine felt a mix of surprise and reflection. She recalled a moment when she realized she had become the grandmother in her family, “I think these roles or these seasons in life come upon us gradually and then all of a sudden, boom, it hits.”
The Importance of Matriarchs
Elaine believes that matriarchs hold a sacred title, serving as repositories of family history and traditions. “I think a matriarch has walked the path. She knows where the potholes are. She knows where the hills are,” she explained. This wisdom allows matriarchs to guide their families through life’s challenges.
Leadership in the Family
The leadership of a matriarch is quiet yet powerful, characterized by meekness, kindness, and love. Elaine emphasized the importance of having faith in one’s children and grandchildren, offering support and encouragement without judgment. “I think you can build and lift and encourage and just be there for grandchildren. I think I’m a soft place to land,” she said.
The Power of Traditions
Traditions play a crucial role in family life, providing consistency in an ever-changing world. Elaine sees herself as a gatherer and a reminder of family traditions, helping her family navigate life’s challenges with confidence.
Influences and Inspirations
Elaine draws inspiration from various matriarchs in her life, including her great-great-aunt and women in scripture. She admires the strength and guidance these women provided, shaping her own approach to the role.
Legacy and Love
Elaine hopes to leave a legacy of love and covenant-keeping. She believes that being bound together as families by covenants is essential, and she strives to radiate love and support in all her interactions. “For me, the legacy would be, ‘she knew how to love, and she was a covenant keeper,’” Elaine emphasized.
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