Here are some ways to meet other silver singles.
Dating is not just for the younger crowd. Age is just a number when it comes to love and connection. Sometimes as older adults, it can be hard to know where to start and how to meet other singles. We’re helping you find the confidence to navigate the dating scene later in life.
Dating Coach Kristin Sokol believes there is no age limit on sparking new connections. She shared some advice for anyone who wants to find their match.
The Role of Friends and Supporters
Kristin emphasized the importance of having a supportive network. “Some of our best and most motivated matchmakers are people around us,” she said.
Let your friends and family know that you’re open to dating. “They know you’re single, but they don’t know if it’s cool for them to bring it up to you,” Kristin emphasized. This can be as simple as dropping hints in conversations, like mentioning you bought a new outfit for a potential date. This openness encourages those around you to think of potential matches and opportunities.
Finding New Hobbies
One of Kristin’s top tips is to find a new hobby. Trying new activities enriches your life and expands your social circle. “Maybe you won’t find the love of your life… but maybe you will,” Kristin said. “Either way, you’re going to have something new and enjoyable that you’re doing.”
Kristin has a friend who joined a whittling class at her local senior center. “She knew nothing about whittling, but they were offering it at the senior center… and now she’s made, like, 200 figurines,” she shared. This hobby led to new friendships and social opportunities, proving that trying something new can lead to unexpected and rewarding experiences. Pickleball and golf are also great ways to meet new people.
Volunteering
Volunteering is another great way to meet new people and give back to the community. “Typically we have more time in our silver era,” Kristin said. “I want to encourage you to volunteer outside the circles that you’re currently running in,” she suggested. Think beyond your local church or school. Look for opportunities with charities, festivals, or community events. These settings provide a natural way to meet others who share your interests and values.
If you’re not going to volunteer, try joining a group where men and women are involved. “You want to steer away from the book club, right? The easy, low hanging fruit,” Kristin emphasized. “Let’s think of something just a little bit outside the box.” If you’re struggling to come up with ideas, get online and search something like,’ volunteer groups in my area.’ That will give you a whole host of ideas.
The Importance of Spreading the Word
If you’re serious about finding a match, let people know. “You have to do your part to let people know that you are interested in knowing who they know,” Kristin advised. Be proactive in social settings, whether through hobbies or volunteering, and show genuine interest in others.
Kristin said to walk in to an event with some goals set for yourself. Things like touching someone on the arm while your talking, or find a new Facebook friend. “That way we’re not tying the success or failure of this event to if somebody else falls in love with me,” Kristin explained.
Embracing Technology
While dating apps might seem daunting, they are a powerful tool for meeting new people. Kristin highlighted that even older adults are finding success online. “I had two clients this year, both over 65, who got married to people they met online,” she revealed. If you’re unsure about using dating apps, get help from someone experienced, or consider finding a dating coach.
Find more advice from Kristin on her website, kristinsokol.com.
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