How to Add Feminine Frills He Will Approve Of

1. Apply in Small Doses

Haven’t we all heard that men are N.I.D – ‘not into details’? I agree. If you need the floral patterns or pastel colors, apply them in small doses and the men in your life may not even notice. A neighbor of mine recently said, “I’ve got to figure out a way to bring some pink into my family room without my husband noticing.” Later that week I noticed a small pink porcelain dish as part of her coffee table display. It blended seamlessly. Success! Other great ideas may be a throw blanket in your favorite feminine color or a colorful cake stand in your kitchen that is disguised as a place to put treats. How about fresh flowers or candles? Who would ridicule you for that? Be careful of scents that are overtly feminine… choose unscented candles and place fragrant flowers where there is space to breathe. The great thing about small doses is that is affords you the opportunity to rotate items seasonally. There are so many fabulous colors trending right now – applying these pops of color adds energy to any neutral space right where you need it.

2. Pick either color or pattern.

When it comes to soft goods like pillows, drapes, bedding, and upholstered pieces like sofas, chairs and even headboards… play down the femininity by choosing either pattern OR color, not both. If the romantic floral prints like Laura Ashley or Shabby Chic look is what you love, then pick that pattern up in a neutral tan-on-white color or even blue and cream. A lovely choice. If the color (pinks and teals and purples) is what matters more to you, look for those colors in graphic, bold, masculine patters or even solids. You’ll still get the look you’re after, but you won’t be taking things over the top. Try to ground both florals and bright colors with neutrals that will both draw attention to them while also downplaying the frilliness of it all.

3. When all else fails, go crazy!

If the two ideas we’ve mentioned just won’t cut it for you – then consider this one : there is probably a space in your home that you consider your own… a vanity or dressing table in your bathroom, a craft room or closet, a powder room or even your laundry room (especially if YOU’RE the one doing all the laundry!). This would be a great place to splash lots of girly color and feminine touches. We’re talking everything from wall color to drapery, decorative baskets, ruffles, flower pins, colorful desk accessories, you name it! This will become your ‘happy place’ and you can tell your hubby to just stay out of it if he doesn’t approve.